Hola!
Yesterday (Friday 9/10) was just fantastic and no not just because it involved chocolate as you may have guessed from the title!
Walking into the safe house in the morning loaded with two big bags of grocery bags got the girls very curious from the moment they saw me...there was a slight nervousness and excitement all around until the girls found out exactly what we were going to be doing, big boxes of corn flakes, 24 bars of milk and white chocolate and of course marshmallows just for that little extra meant only one thing; corn flake cakes! When it was explained to the girls what we would be doing they were excited to say the least and so was I. I have never seen a group of children clear up tables, join them together, and be seated as quickly as I did on Friday, if it was a marathon they´d be the first to cross that line!
The excitement in the air was just electric for so many reasons; an activity involving chocolate usually in itself is a treat but for these girls it was so much more, for some it was the fact that they had not had any chocolate in two years, none of them had ever had corn flakes or marshmallows before, I am certain that when you read this it may give you some idea of how I felt upon hearing and realising this, I remained and was excited and enthusiastic but for a brief moment when I went in search of pots, pans etc and even as I type now I was and am deeply saddened and upset in learning this and recalling the incomprehensible things that these beautiful bright young girls (one as young as eight years old) have gone through, I needed a moment before being able to get back to the girls.
We were however, missing one essential item in order to make these corn flake cakes and despite me having scoured the super mercado from aisle to aisle twice over I still couldn’t find any cup cakes! I refused to be defeated where there is a will there is a way so we improvised:
What you need:
-Half a sheet of A4 paper;
-Colouring pencils;
-Scissors;
-Some sellotape; and
-A group of enthusiastic participants!
What you do
1. Design your half sheet of A4 with any kind of design you like, the only requirement is it must be full of colour and not taken seriously;
2. Ensure your name is clearly drawn on the paper;
3. Cut up the top end of the paper and using scissors fray the ends with adult supervision, and
4. Roll up like a cone and tape together using sellotape ensuring the designed side is outward facing!
The girls as you can see were just so engrossed in their designing it was great to see them enjoying what they were doing, I couldn’t get a peep out of them and they were so proud of their cones once they had been taped together.
Everyday two girls are on lunch duty which entails preparing lunch from scratch for all of the girls and staff at the safe house, unbelievable is the only word I can use to describe them when the girls are in chef mode, the size of the pans on the cooker is scary in itself but to see them stand on a stool to stir the big bubbling pans which are best described as vats is incredible they are not in the slightest phased. Whilst this rota system may appear a little harsh i.e. spending a morning cooking it is in fact another way in which the safe house is teaching them day to day life skills for when they leave the safe house.
Needless to say of course when it came to the melting of the chocolate it was no problem! Before I could say ´willy wonka´ the girls had melted all of the chocolate in three separate bowls, one for each table, we moved the bowls into the main activity room where the girls had fun stirring in the corn flakes and then spooning the mixture in layers of white and milk chocolate in their individually designed cones, there was of course a sneaky tasting session by the girls OK, and me(!) but it would have been rude not to!
Next was the topping and decorating of the cones with mini marshmallows and most of the marshmallows did get used for decorative purposes before being devoured. Finally grab a spoon and enjoy! Nigella eat your heart out!

We had so much fun, the girls were brilliant and it was great to see all of them being able to partake in an activity altogether at the same time as opposed to in small groups.
Everyday two girls are on lunch duty which entails preparing lunch from scratch for all of the girls and staff at the safe house, unbelievable is the only word I can use to describe them when the girls are in chef mode, the size of the pans on the cooker is scary in itself but to see them stand on a stool to stir the big bubbling pans which are best described as vats is incredible they are not in the slightest phased. Whilst this rota system may appear a little harsh i.e. spending a morning cooking it is in fact another way in which the safe house is teaching them day to day life skills for when they leave the safe house.
Next was the topping and decorating of the cones with mini marshmallows and most of the marshmallows did get used for decorative purposes before being devoured. Finally grab a spoon and enjoy! Nigella eat your heart out!
We had so much fun, the girls were brilliant and it was great to see all of them being able to partake in an activity altogether at the same time as opposed to in small groups.
You might be wondering why I have gone into so much detail in telling you about my morning with the girls in carrying out this simple activity with them, the reason is because I want to try and portray across to you as best as I can and if not fully then even just a fraction of the excitement, fun and enjoyment the girls and I had and how easy it can be to bring a smile and some happiness to a child's life.

Hi Sis, I have got tears in my eyes reading this and am glad that you are out there doing this.Please Please let me know if there is anything i can do from here.I have got a load of new clothes together from our new fashion range and want to send them out there while you are there. We will pay all the costs can you find out how i can get them over there and the address i have sppoken to the shipping deparment and I can have them on a plane tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteBest Regards and lots of love Alex please give a big hug to all the children from me xxxx
Sorry one more thing please can you call me if possible i want to send over a small collection that i have done here or i can put it on your plastic and you can spend this on the children.
ReplyDeletelove Alex. xxx
Hi Mina,how are you?sounds like you and the girls had a great time cooking. you have gave them so much happiness in the past few days.
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Asha
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hey sis, you are doing a fantastic job keep it up, the kids looked soo cute just wana give them a big hug, did they like the cornflakes cake? we are soo lucky we should appricate what we got and also the parents support that we have been given.. i feel for them.. :'( .... what have you been doing today..mum and dad say hi. takecare and take loads of pics. Priya XX
ReplyDeleteWow it sounds like you're doing a lot of good work, and having a great time as well. Keep up the good work!
ReplyDeleteHi, apologies for the technical hitches I will be loading some pics today.
ReplyDeleteyour messages are all so touching. Your money will go to such good use i cant tell you. Just to put it into pespective i spent £15 on my making corn flake cakes on friday and the happiness it has created is just unbelieveable.
So many of you have been so generous already and I can't thank you enough, it really is a very worthy cause and i can't wait to tell you how the money is being spent needless to say every penny will be spent carefully.
I am meeting with the director today in a few minutes in fact to discuss where the money will be spent in the meantime I will be doing what I can in my last few days here to bring some fun into their lives.
Alex, let me know what you and any others want to donate and I will fund it and we can sort it out upon my return. As for the clothes that would be amazing, I am leaving my things but I know what you send will just be ace and it will mean that instead of me shopping for clothes as I was going to tomorrow I (personally) will buy some other things i.e. shoes are held together with tape and string, girls accessories are practically non existent I could go on! I will be in touch with shipping details etc later today.
Priya, you are spot on, we really should be thankful for all that we have have and more so for the people that we are surrounded by who love and care for us, we dont give it enough credit!
Love and hugs to you all.
XXX
Hi Sis,
ReplyDeleteI have got £1000.00 together so please put it to some good use.
more will follow and will keep in touch.
luv Alex xxx
Alex, that is fantastic and just brilliant and so very generous! Is it from just you or a group of you at work? I will keep you posted as to how it will be spent.
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Hey Mina! Wow you all certainly had fun! Needless to say the girls thoroughly themselves and have been gifted lifetime memories...and i'm sure you enjoyed the cakes too ;). its amazing what such a small activity can please someone. You can't help but dwell on the fact, what we take for granted everyday, such as chocolate, these YOUNG(!) girls see it as luxury! you certainly learn to appreciate! Keep having fun doing such an tremendous thing... N
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